The Sunday Set-Up for December 8, 2013

Sermon Teaser:

Who rules?

As Christians we say that "Jesus is Lord” and therefore is the ruler of our lives. But what does that mean? How do we live under his rule. What influence does His rule have over our daily decisions, thoughts, and actions? Isaiah the prophet, who lived several hundred years before Jesus, was granted special insight into the rule of Christ. Join us this Sunday as we examine his words and seek to prepare for Christ’s return, the second advent. 

Readings for Sunday:
Psalm 72:1-7, 18-19

Isaiah 11:1-10

Matthew 9:1-12

Bulletin for Sunday: December 8, 2013

Rwanda: Is God calling you to be there?

We are planning another trip to deepen our relationship with Church of the Apostles - Gikomero and the Shyogwe Diocese.  The 2014 trip will be July 4-15 and led by Eric Bolash.  The primary purpose of the trip will be working with the Mothers Union, and any area based on an applicant's skill set.  The Mothers Union encourages and educates women in parenting, nutrition, hygiene, family planning and offers emotional support.  They teach skills in order for the women to become self-sustaining.  The trip cost is approximately $2,800.  Applications are available on our website: HERE. They are due this Sunday, December 8th. If you have any questions, contact Eric Bolash (eric@apostles-raleigh.org) or Teresa Kincaid (nanatgk@gmail.com). 

Below is the blog post that Patrick wrote on the last day of their trip this past summer. Read about their trip and pray...asking the Lord if you are meant to go this coming year...

Day 11-I am sitting on an Ethiopian Jet liner in the 20th hour of a 30 hour journey (counting layovers).  It is hard to find the words to sum up our sister church partnership trip so far.  It has been affirming, moving, joyful, transforming and challenging.  Our hosts have been so gracious, and it and it has been wonderful to see and experience the genuine warmth.  This was our churches 4th trip, my third, several members second and a first for three of our team.  The change in our partnership has been remarkable.  Names are known.  Hugs and exclamations of delight punctuated each joyful greeting, as we hailed each one, recognizing faces and remembering names:  Gato! Betti! Bishop Jared! Pastor Ettiene! Eugenie! Felicima! Venant!   And on and on it went.  “Mwaramutze" (good morning), "I Mana Abahe Umugeedzah!" (May God bless you!), "Yesu Ashmwe!" (Jesus Be praised!)...

Taylor and Sarah with our cook Favian

As I witnessed, experienced and pondered these loving exchanges, I became more convinced of the true relational value of partnership.  The New Testament Epistles are filled with such warm greetings and blessings arising out of genuine affection and mutual knowledge of our Lord Jesus.

I come away from this trip deeply touched by our brothers and sisters in Rwanda.  They are building a new church building which we were privileged to see progress this week from ground level to about 15-20 bricks high all the way around.  They told us they are renaming their parish “Gikomero Church of the Apostles” to reflect our brotherhood.  They said “in our eyes you are Rwandan.  Please tell the brothers and sisters at home that we love them and are praying for them.  Tell them they are Rwandans, too!”

Laying brick on the foundation of the new church building

I was also very glad to see that Pastor Ettiene has become a very good and solid leader of his parish.  He loves his people, walks miles every day to encourage them in their cell groups and families, meets regularly with his lay leaders, visits the health clinic to pray with patients, and faithfully teaches/preaches The Word of God. He was delighted to show me the effects of the water project and the running water in the clinic, at a community station and just outside his home.

Pastor Ettiene oversees the building project

Ettiene greets Teresa

Our group also was impressed by the compassionate outreach taking place at Gikomero.  The church consistently ministers to over 100 single mothers who have suffered stigmatization, abandonment, abuse or rape.  These single moms are heroically working, providing and seeking the best for their kids.  The church is encouraging them with resources and the hope of the Gospel.

How I wish all our church could experience this partnership first hand.  I wish you could have met Alfred and his wife, Jennifer – a warm, loving couple who minster to youth, children, mothers, and prisoners.  Alfred was unjustly accused of participation in the genocide and spent 11 years in prison separated from his wife and children.  You would never know it to look at him.  He is filled with the grace and joy of Jesus and preaches the good news every chance he gets.

I wish you could have met the four children and one young man a few members of our group have sponsored through Compassion International.  They and their parents are so grateful for the chance to obtain education. The young man has obtained a vocational degree to operate taxis and small vehicles.  He was incredibly kind-hearted towards the younger children, sharing his candy (a gift we gave) with them, and playing soccer with them with his new ball.

I wish you could have seen the dancing at the church service yesterday as we all joined in with feet pumping and arms waving in raucous joy.  What a picture of the kingdom!  As I watched the children dancing and the adults clapping, tears came to my eyes.  This is what we are all destined for in the kingdom of God when the nations gather round to worship.  The tears came because I know these people.  I know their struggles.  I know their illnesses.  I am getting to know their fears.  I see their poverty and lack.  I’ve heard their stories of genocide.  Their dancing brings tears because it is born out of hope for a better world.  Not just in the coming kingdom, but in the progress of the kingdom NOW!!

Let the dancing begin!

Eric just can't help himself!

Patrick too!!!

I wish you could have been here for there is more to tell than I can possibly write.  I hope this blog has been a blessing to you.  I hope the few pictures and stories we have posted have made it possible for you to share in the journey.  I hope you will press in further with our sister church and hold them in your heart and keep them in your prayers.

Imana Ibana amohoro namwe.  (The peace of God be with you all.)

COME!

The title of this blog is an invitation.  It is extended to you.  To your neighbor, your co-worker, your babysitter, your mother-in-law, your yoga instructor.  The exclamation point is meant to conjure up a big smile and maybe even a hug.  It has become the tagline, as well as the invitation, for GIG our Wednesday morning women’s Bible Study at Apostles this fall. 

Let me back up in an effort to explain.  Last spring, as we wrapped up GIG for the year, God was churning hearts.  Members of the study, teaching leaders, small group leaders, all – felt an unsettledness at where we stood.  At the end of an amazing year of studying God’s word and a ‘successful’ year of Bible Study, we felt as if we had missed something.  As we shared and prayed and pondered these thoughts, it became clear that God was asking something more of us.  In a slow and gentle way, God showed us that He desired us to hold this study a little more loosely.  We had been organized and orderly, but perhaps our order had created a box that was a bit too small, a bit too self-defined.  He had poured out such richness into our hearts through His word, but we had just drunk it in with doors shut.  The question of our hearts became, how can we create a study where we are fed – with the structure needed to keep 80 women in line – but at the same time open the doors such that we reach out into our community weekly to bring in those who may have never heard of words so life-giving?

The answer to that question was COME!  We created flyers and bookmarks and Evites that every registered member of GIG could have on hand to pass out in their schools and carpools and work places.  We continued our rich sharing and fellowship in our small groups, but we opened the doors during the teaching “message” (from 11-11:30am each Wednesday).  Each week smiling women have volunteered to wait at the doors to see who might trickle in to hear of this life changing Man, Jesus.  And each week they came.  Sometimes just a couple, sometimes as many as a dozen.  Women of no faith, women of abandoned faith, women of great faith.  Women who have experienced great loss and great strain.  But each week, some have COME. 

The blessing has been all ours - to watch and see what He does with our tiniest obedience.  A Jewish woman who visited told her friend through eyes filled with tears, “I just felt so warm being here.”  He is so faithful.  All.  The.  Time.

So, to the women of Apostles, we now invite every one of you into this.  The Sip and Savor the Season Christmas Tea desires to reach out into our communities.  GIG is working with the other women’s Bible Studies, and we would like your involvement as well.  Will you join us at the Tea on Wednesday, December 11 from 10-11:30am.  And more poignantly, will you look around and ask the Lord to show you just one person (or more) to bring to hear a message of what happens when the God of all creation is born in our hearts, a message of hope to us all?  This is outreach made easy.  We will have live music, hot drinks and yummy treats.  We will have a pretty fellowship hall and smiling women.  We will do it all, so all you need to say is COME! Tickets to this event will be sold after both services this Sunday (2 tickets for $5).  If you have any questions about the Christmas Tea, contact Lauren Mann, laurenEmann@yahoo.com.  If you have questions about the COME outreach of GIG, contact Liz Fischer lizziefischer@gmail.com.

“Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than we can ask or imagine.”
Ephesians 3:20

To God be the Glory.

The Sunday Set-Up for December 1, 2013

The crop duster in this photo is a WOMD--Weapon Of Mass Destruction. It destroys every harmful critter that tries to attack the farmer's crop. But what does crop dusting have to do with Advent?

Come find out on Sunday as I preach on the advent of the Lord and our preparation for his coming.

Until then, Happy Thanksgiving. Our church staff is grateful for each of you.

Let every heart prepare him room,

Eric

Readings for Sunday: Psalm 122 and Isaiah 2:1-5

Bulletins for Sunday: December 1 (8:30am) and December 1 (11:00am)

A Report from The Fellows Conference

by Cary Bayless, 2014 Raleigh Fellow

A few weekends back your Raleigh Fellows had the joy of attending the annual Regional Fellows Initiative Retreat in Virginia. The retreat included lots of coffee, bonding in a van ride through the mountains, an expansion of each Fellows community, talks and discussions on Justice based out of Micah 6:8, an intensely competitive ultimate frisbee tournament (even though we didn't win we had the best jerseys), a hilarious montage of skits and videos by each program, heavenly worship, bonding for the guys from sleeping in tents in the frigid October air, and beautiful peace from the surrounding Blue Ridge Mountains ablaze in ambers, oranges, and greens. It was life giving. 

To discuss all of the aforementioned joys would take pages of ink, so I will instead leave you with a few important nuggets we all learned. 

First off, man, we are thankful for YOU Church of the Apostles and Raleigh, North Carolina. Seeing all of the other programs our friends from college and new acquaintances are a part of was wonderful! Each program is unique and Jesus is present in every Fellows program, but in every program he is teaching different things. Being in Raleigh we are really learning a lot about biblical community, loving like Jesus, and what it means as an adult to follow him in our places of work, in our homes, and with each other. The Raleigh Fellows program does this very well and we are all very thankful for that.

Second, we are thankful that our God IS good and He IS just. Hearing our speakers talk about what it truly means to love mercy, seek justice, and walk humbly with our God was refreshing and encouraging. We were pushed to see that all of these mandates in Micah 6:8 are applicable to us whether we are working to free our brothers and sisters around the world from human trafficking, working for a landscaping company, or serving as a teacher. No matter what our profession, Micah 6:8 applies. This is a beautiful part of the Gospel. Wherever we may be, serving God is a part of our job. 

Finally, we are thankful for the opportunity to be a Fellow. From every conversation I had with friends in other programs one chord rang similar: having nine months as a Fellow is one of the best decisions we have made thus far in our lives. It's not easy. It's not a perfect community in constant harmony. In fact, at times life as a Fellow can be hard. But it is so, so good. The reason is simple enough: Jesus. He is the reason we are all here. We all want to grow in our love of him. We all want to learn how to love others like him. We want more of Jesus and being a part of a Fellows community gives us that opportunity. Taking classes that study the Bible as a whole, prayer, solitude, silence, and leadership; Jesus is central. Being in a new community and living with a new family; Jesus is the cornerstone. Entering into what John Mayer would disdainfully call "the real world," we see to do so well, we must have our whole hearts turned to Christ. Seeing these truths in each program was encouraging and seeing how God is using everyone's time as a Fellow to draw us all closer to him was even more encouraging.

The retreat was wonderful. The coffee was fresh, the laughter always present, and the Fellows community beautiful. We are all thankful for the opportunity to go and would love to talk to you about it more at anytime! Just don't bring up the ultimate frisbee tournament.

Raleigh Forever,

Raleigh Fellows 2014

Cary Bayless

The Sunday Set-Up for November 24, 2013

Sermon Teaser: Have you ever considered what you’re saying about yourself when you pray? Have you ever considered what you’re saying about your God?  Come and join us at Apostles this Sunday to find out as we finish up our series in the book of James.  While you’re learning about prayer, you’ll get some advice that will help you as you wait for the Lord’s return, whether it’s next week or thousands of years from now…

Readings for Sunday: James 5:13-20 and Mark 1:29-34

Bulletin for Sunday: November 24, 2013

Rwanda Roof Project

Editor's Note: In our partnership with the Gikomero church in Rwanda, we are joining with them to pay for a new roof to their church building. God is providing, and we will celebrate his provision this Sunday! In the article below, Sue Koehler describes her perspective on God's work in Rwanda and the importance of this new roof.

My first encounter with Rwanda was June of 1995. It was one year after the genocide. I was on staff with Food for the Hungry International in Mugunga Refugee Camp just outside Goma, Zaire. The camp was home for about 150,000 Rwandan Hutus who had fled the oncoming RFP soldiers that finally ended the slaughter of the Tutsis. It was one of five camps of approximately the same size along the Rwanda/Zaire border. At that time, eighteen years ago, I couldn’t imagine a Rwanda reunited with the nearly 1 million refugees living in these make-shift cities of UNCHR-issued plastic sheeting. Tensions were high. Fear and rumors of invasion were constant. The future looked bleak.

Fast forward to 2011 when I joined a small team from Apostles to travel to Gikomero, Rwanda to explore how to further develop opportunities for members of Church of the Apostles Raleigh to build relationships with our sister church in that rural Rwandan town. My first time back to Rwanda in nearly twenty years, much had changed. It was no longer a country in crisis, but a country reunited and rebuilding. The camps no longer existed, Zaire was renamed the Democratic Republic of Congo, and Hutu and Tutsi once again living side by side in Rwanda. Yet, the fears of the camps were not gone, they were just pushed underground. They were veiled behind each face I saw along the sides of the road as we passed by in our mini-van and behind the new construction and new moto-taxis zipping along the road.

Our team worshiped the final Sunday of our trip at our sister church in Gikomero; a small parish perched atop one of the many mountains in that beautiful ‘land of a thousand hills’. The whole congregation was there for their monthly gathering. Most had walked a great distance to reach the church for the service. They’d walked along dusty trails in their Sunday finest to meet for baptisms, communion, and a message by the Mizungu (white man) from America, Pastor Patrick Dominguez. The small church building was our backdrop, not our shelter. We worshiped under the blue sky. Women shaded themselves and their babies  under multicolored umbrellas. I marveled at the site. Two decades prior, it was a place of bloodshed during the genocide. Hutus, on order from leaders, murdered Tutsis who had fled from neighboring communes to this location seeking shelter. Now, it was a place of worship. I looked out at the crowd and wondered if I’d worked with any of these adults as children when they were separated from their families and living as orphans in the camps.

Patrick Dominguez led another Rwanda Partnership team this past summer. During the trip he was made aware by Pastor Etienne of our sister church’s plan to construct a new church building; one that was larger and capable to hold services indoors with the congregation, so they wouldn’t have to meet outdoors. It would also provide for a place for the students of the elementary and secondary schools to meet for large events. A request was made for financial help to cover the cost of the roof of the church. The congregation had already raised over $3,000 towards the construction of the building. The roof was estimated to cost $15,000. Patrick returned to the Rwanda Partnership Team and the Leadership Council with that request.

My first thought was, “That’s a lot of money for a building. Couldn’t our money better be used for AIDs work or some program to help orphans and widows?”. But that changed when I considered the significance of that local church in living out the gospel in Gikomero, as an agent of change in the hearts, minds and bodies among individuals and thereby the community. It's not a development agency run by expatriates, but the church made up of men and women from their neighborhood. Church of the Apostles in Gikomero is reclaiming a violent place with a sanctuary. One made of bricks and mortar for sure, but also a spiritual place of sanctuary amidst darkness, both past and present. What a beautiful sign of God's hope and redemption in a place that will need much of that in the years to come. What a privilege we have, Church of the Apostles Raleigh, to share in that effort.